Do you remember the first moment it hit you -- 
deep love of horses?

You dreamed of your horse running to greet you -- not just because you’ve got food, but because they’re excited to see you.

You planned on taking adventures together knowing you can trust each other & feel confident in each other’s presence.

You were all each other needed to have a fun, happy day with sun beating down on your face.

But then… things didn’t work out quite like you had planned.

Being with your horse sometimes feels dangerous & unpredictable. It’s scary. You don’t always feel safe.

Everyone keeps telling you to be “tougher,” but it’s not who you are & it doesn’t feel right.

Something seems to be missing.

The Real Reason Why Horse Lovers Fail To Have A Horse That Is Eager To Please... 
And What To Do About It

You’ve realised that you don’t understand your horse.

It's not asserting your dominance that helps get a happy, confident horse that is eager to please. Traditional horse training approaches have led you astray. 

Perhaps they’ve made you feel like your horse is too much for you - that you should sell your horse.

It’s not your fault.

Your horse is behaving this way because of all the old methods & misinformed approaches that you’ve tried.

Like any relationship, you’ve got to listen to each other. It’s a give and receive.

No human wants to be in a relationship with a domineering partner that never lets them express themselves. And neither does your horse.

The answer is shockingly simple.

It's listening to & understanding the horse & what their behaviour is really telling you that is going to give you that horse that is excited to be with you… without any tricks, treats or pressure.

You need to learn about a new way of understanding your horse and what their behaviour is really telling you by actually building a relationship of trust and respect. This under-the-radar approach will quickly deliver a fun, happy, confident horse that is eager to please.

It challenges everything you think you know about training horses.

Inspiration Begins With Communication

I’m on a mission to help you see the truth about what is really happening in your relationship with your horse with no pressure, treats or tricks needed. I teach horse lovers all over the world how to build a lifelong, sustainable relationship with a fun, happy, confident horse that is eager to please.

Inspiration Begins with Communication is going to re-invent how you approach your horse, from the arena to the paddock.

If it would feel like a miracle for you to get your horse to trust, respect & desire you, then this is for you.

Here’s exactly what we cover

Prep Lesson: Mastering Your Horse’s Body Language

  • How to read your horse’s whole body: Discover whether your horse wants to be with you or not, by only looking at body language. Understand whether their mind & body are in balance & what that means for you.

  • Understanding facial expressions: The face gives more intricate details & specific understanding about how your horse is feeling. Reading facial expressions will reveal your horse’s tension levels which is key to avoiding stressful situations with your horse.

Module 1: Opening your mind to the possibilities

  • The fundamental principles of Attunement: Shifting your mindset from the traditional approach to horse training & learning to tap into your intuition.
  • Rules for the Horse & Human: Understanding boundaries for you & your horse so that you both know what is and isn’t acceptable.
  • Delve deeper into what a connection is: Step away from obedience and into one of desire, curiosity & interest.

Module 2: Learning to be Attuned with your horse

  • Understanding the reactive horse & the dull horse: We’ll look at “obedient” horses and how traditional horse training affects their personality.
  • How to start attuning to your horse: Do you start with or without tack? Do you head straight out to the paddock or arena? Get started with simple steps so that you don’t feel lost or overwhelmed.
  • From connection to unity: Move from connecting with your horse to a more advanced stage of creating unity where where you work together as one.

Module 3: The power of trusting your intuition

  • Tapping into your intuition: Learn how to get out of your analytical mind & into your sensing mind - the one that senses everything that’s happening around you, including your intuition.
  • The quality of your pause: The pause is a powerful tool for listening to your horse. It is crucial to understanding your horse & knowing how to respond.
  • Gateway to know when your horse is ready to be trained: Get 4 questions to help you understand whether you need to keep focusing on building connection or you’re ready to move on to training your horse in a whole new way.

Module 4: Discover the importance of creating space

  • To tack or not to tack? Uncover the surprising factors that affect your decision about your horse wearing tack or no tack. How to know which method will suit your horse based on what they’re expressing to you.
  • Creating physical space: Why does your horse get reactive or closed down? Discover how to move around & with your horse in a way that makes your horse feel as confident & relaxed as possible.
  • How to create space for a two-way conversation: Quiet the mental chatter & allow the horse to express themselves. This secret will help you create an environment where you & your horse feel calm & confident.

Module 5: Understand what & how much you can ask

  • Tapping into the horses instincts: Adapt to your horses natural instincts & embrace them within your training. Learn to follow the horse instead of fighting the horse.
  • The problem with task training: Discover why focusing on what you’re trying to achieve is hindering your training. Learn how to stay open to the conversation to uncover limitless opportunities with your horse.
  • The secret to building confidence: Find out how much you should ask of your horse & where the boundaries lie. Do you ask again? Do you try one more time?

Module 6: Training your horse at liberty

  • 3 liberty basics: How to create a two-way conversation when the horse is free without tack. You’ll learn what to do next so that you don’t feel stuck.
  • Inspire your horse to embrace a request: How to get your horse to want to do what you’re asking. Why yielding is never the answer to keeping you & your horse safe.
  • Moving forward with training: How to engage with your horse at liberty and create a dance together! We will start to bring all your lessons together so that you can work with your horse with no tack and still maintain a great connection.

Module 7: Build lifelong motivation in your horse

  • Motivating your horse: How to internally motivate your horse without resorting to tricks, treats & pressure.
  • How to sustain motivation: Transform the horse’s energy to bring them to a place where they feel confident & motivated. You’ll use this lesson over and over every time your horse’s emotions fluctuate.
  • Breaking down bad habits from traditional horsemanship: How the things we’ve been told we “should” do are actually hindering our relationship with our horse. Discover what to do instead.

Module 8: Leave tradition behind for success

  • Avoiding conflict: Why your horse can’t learn during conflict & how to avoid any need for conflict. How to create harmony even when thing are challenging.
  • Motivation deep dive: Why food or pressure doesn’t help motivate your horse. We’ll dive deeper into motivating your horse without resorting to tricks, treats & pressure.
  • The real effect of obedience: Stop relying on traditional concepts of obedience and start to see how it changes your horse’s personality over time. Watch real footage of how to get your horse to willingly embrace your suggestions.

Here's a sneak peak at some of the video lessons

Plus, EXCLUSIVE Bonuses worth $1,675

Exclusive access to weekly group coaching 
(Value: $1,000)

  • You’ll get the opportunity to have personal coaching from me every week. Turning theory into practice is often half the battle, so I’m here to help you every step of the way.
  • I’ll answer all your questions & personally respond to any issue or concern that you have with the practical exercises. This happens every single week, without fail.

Community of fellow horse lovers around the world 
(Value: $500)

  • You’ll get asked a few questions after you watch each case study video. You can submit your answers in the online coaching forum. Each member of the community has an amazingly unique perspective.
  • Our members tell us they love seeing how different people from our community approach the same topic. By reading other people’s responses, you’ll have a whole new world of insights open for you.

A personal video Review
with me 
(Value: $150)

  • As part of your WEBINAR bonus, you’ll get the opportunity to submit your training video to me for a personal review. My video review is valued at $150.
  • At the end of the course you can send me your video of your real-life interaction with your horse & I’ll provide feedback on small changes you can make that lead to big results with your horses. This is designed to help you understand what’s happening with you horse as if we were in the same arena together. Priceless.

One FREE month in The Ongoing Learning Program 
(Value: $25)

  • You’ll get one free month access to our Ongoing Learning Program, which is valued at $25. 
  • In our Ongoing Learning Program I use YOUR topic requests and answer YOUR questions directly in my LIVE sessions. These happen regularly and go for at least an hour. Plus you have the choice to participate live OR watch a replay either in the Facebook Group or on the website.
  • Some of the previous training session videos currently in our library for members to access include:
    * Using treats to train horses
    * What to do, how much to do and when to do it? Training that is!
    * The Mindful Horse
    * Do I push too much or not enough?
    * Technical training Q & A

How it works

Body language lessons so that you can hit the ground running

Before we even start, I’ll walk you through the basics of reading your horse’s body language - both the entire body & facial expressions. This will give you a big leg up once you jump into the videos. It will help you understand a lot more than you normally would.


Get step-by-step video lessons where I help your mind adjust to the concept of Attunement. These videos break down the traditional horsemanship approach & show you how Attunement will give you a happy, confident horse that is eager to please. This is the low-stress, peaceful approach to interacting with your horse.


For each module, you will see a student & their horse getting a real-life, unscripted lesson, just like you would at an in-person clinic. Watch a wide range of horses with different personalities, so that you can see elements of yourself & your horse in each video. These will show you how to put the theory into practice with your own horse.

You won’t be limited by your geographic location. Access these from anywhere.

Get personal support & coaching from me in the forum

Dive deeper into the case studies by answering questions about what you’ve learned in each lesson. You won’t just watch the videos, you analyse them to see how & why this approach works. I’ll also provide personal coaching on how this relates to you & your horse in the real world.

Plus, learn from over 1,000 other horse lovers and what they have seen in the lessons, so you’re always building off each other’s experiences. You’ll never be alone in this journey of Attunement.

Practical activities that can be adapted to any environment

Each module comes with a ‘create-sheet.’ You can print out this worksheet to take out to your horse & start putting the lessons into practice. These are designed to take you step-by-step toward learning to read your horse’s body language & understand what your horse is trying to say to you.

Mastering these practical activities will stay with you for a lifetime…

...even if you’re agisting your horse

...even if you can only work in a paddock

...even if you have a grass arena

...even if you’re under snow right now

...even if your horse is aged

...even if you have a foal or young horse

...even if you’re entering your golden years.

Go at your own pace with LIFETIME access

This isn’t something that you do just when you go into the training arena. This impacts every interaction you have with your horse.

That’s why we’ve given you lifetime access. You can take the course as slow or as fast as you like… especially if it’s winter where you are right now.

No previous horsemanship experience required

You don’t need to have years & years of experience in the arena to take advantage of this program. This works for everyone. Because it’s about UNLEARNING the rules of traditional horsemanship & getting in touch with your intuition.

Your intuition is already there. The goal is to help you tap into it. And that’s not something that comes from your previous education.

No technical skills required

You don’t need to be a whizz at the computer to access this program. We’ve made it legitimately easy. But even if you’re having trouble, we’ve got one full-time team member whose job is to give you step-by-step support if you have trouble accessing the materials. This is part of our ‘no horse lover left behind’ policy.

Get a course completion certificate

At the end of your 8 modules, I’m excited to present a course completion certificate. This certificate is a celebration of your newfound horse Attunement skills.

But what you’re really getting is…

Confidence That You Are Enough For Your Horse:

You’ll know you have the power to find the answers with your horses without turning to anyone else.


Follow your own unique path with your horse. Make the most of both of your individual personalities, strengths, & preferences with total trust in yourself, your intuition & your horse.


You can manage any situation with your horse, or get the help you need when you’re feeling unsure. Avoid getting stuck in a scary situation with your horse because you’ll be able to read the sign long before that happens.


Bring the ease & joy back into your relationship with your horse by letting go of old methods. You’ll be content with your horse while still achieving something new everyday.

Real progress: 

No more feeling stuck. Discover how to inspire your horse to want to learn, so that you’re both feeling the difference & seeing the progress every week.

Connection WITH YOUR HORSE: 

Learn to be present with your horse, instead of always focusing on achievement. You’ll notice how being present with your horse makes you feel like you’re on the same team. That starts to drive progress.

Is this right for me?

If you can check off 4 out of 6 of these boxes, then you're PERFECTLY positioned to have a better relationship with your horse with

Inspiration Begins With Communication

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    You’re just got your first horse or you’re getting back into horses after a break. You want to make sure that you & your horse get off on the right foot from the start & build a sustainable, joyful relationship.
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    You’ve got a pretty good relationship with your horse, but there’s some problems that you just can’t seem to sort out on your own. You’ve tried lots of traditional methods… and the problem keeps reappearing like a fly that just won’t go away.
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    You have no problem putting in the work as long as you know that every bit of energy you invest is a positive step towards strengthening your relationship with your horse. You have the self discipline to take the theory & lessons that I teach you out to your horse & put them into practice.
  • check
    You’re already committed to your horse & you want to restore your confidence in your horse so that they can be confident in you too.
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    You’re aware that you need to Get Your Horse To Trust & Respect You… and you’re excited to be a good leader for your horse.
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    You LOVE your horse. You want them to be happy… and few things give you more pleasure than creating a lifelong, sustainable relationship with a fun, happy, confident horse that is eager to please.

But it’s probably NOT for you if:

  • You want your horse to do all the work. You think your horse is to blame for all your problems & you’re not interested in considering your role in the relationship. This work means you’ll have to develop some new habits and work on your own energy too.
  • You want things to be completely different by tomorrow. This is a learning journey. It takes time -- just like any good relationship you have with humans. You’ve got to be patient with yourself & your horse.
  • You’re not committed to following through & doing the homework. This process is designed to completely transform your relationship with your horse. But it does take real practice. If you’re not willing to do the homework & practice, then you shouldn’t sign up.

WARNING: You won’t get the relationship with your horse that you’ve always dreamed of... if you keep trying the same old methods

You spent $1000s to buy your horse. And you invest $1000s more to keep your horse every single year.

What’s the point if the relationship is full of stress, anxiety & struggle? Does that feel like a good use of your time, money & energy?

I know it can feel scary to sign up for an online program about training horses. You might be thinking, “how on earth can I learn to work with my horse through the computer?”

But you’ve got to ask yourself, how much is it worth to you to completely transform your relationship with your horse when you’ll be in each other’s lives for 10+ years or more?

Inspiration Begins With Communication can bring your dream relationship to life.

How much is that worth to you?

You can sign up now & pay in full to SAVE an extra $41 by making just one payment of $459

You get to decide what is right for you & your horse.


If you’re still on the fence…

Try the whole 1st Module with ZERO RISK with our payment plan option

I know that this will totally change how you & your horse feel about each other. That’s why I let you take the entire first module for FREE.

Take the lessons. Put it into practice with your horse. And see the results.

If you’re not happy, just let us know within the first 5 days and we’ll cancel all your future payments.

You’ll have tested this out without spending a single dollar. You won’t have spent a penny to find out if it’s right for you.

It’s literally zero risk.

What Others Say


This course has changed my relationship with my horse because I now realize that obedience didn't translate into happiness and connection with my horse. This was the piece that I was missing. I let my own desire of what I thought our relationship should look like override what was actually happening in the moment. It is a journey, but every day I feel that through listening and understanding I'm starting to unlock more and more of my horse's heart and desire to be with me.

Jenilee from USA


I've opened my way of thinking, I enjoy it much more being with my horses and I love learning with them. I can understand them better and I am able to have a conversation with them. I listen to them and I accept them for who they are. I've definitely slowed down and I swapped my targets and expectations for the value I can bring into our training and relationship. I feel much stronger in who I am with my horses and I know that I am enough to them. Day by day we get more confident being and training together.

Izabela from UK


Working with Paulette, even from many thousands of miles away, has been an amazing experience. My Galahad and I have been searching for a way to connect “soul to soul,” as Paulette says, since I adopted him eight years ago. His history of abuse and harsh training have made it challenging for both of us to trust. Paulette’s ability to read the smallest of signs and then help me to read them, too, is unmatched in my experience. I have never taken any kind of course—and I’ve tried a lot of them!—where I've felt so "seen" and been helped this much. In just six or eight months, my relationship with Galahad has changed dramatically. We’re closer than ever to the connection that we have always wanted. He now has a voice and feels safe to tell me what he thinks, and I feel safe listening to him...and then we decide what to do together. Thank you, Paulette, from both of us!!!

Kay from USA


QUESTION: I only see my horse once a week, will I still be able to do the course?

  • Not a problem! Although the modules get released to weekly or monthly depending on your payment plan, you can actually take all the time you need to work through them. There are no set timeframes or deadlines for completing a lesson. And even better - you have lifetime access and can revisit your favourite parts of the course whenever you’d like.

QUESTION: It’s Winter where I live right now and I only see my horse to feed him. How can I do this course?

  • ​​​​Although it doesn’t snow here in Sydney, we have students from all over the world and totally understand your predicament. Our course is carefully planned to suit your situation at any given time. You’ll find you can complete most of the activities in a halter and lead rope, and in all situations with your horse - no ‘formal training’ in the arena is required. If you’re lucky enough to be able to access an arena during bad weather, that’s ok too. Our activities and lesson ideas are flexible.

QUESTION: Is this course going to help me with my riding?

  • Attunement begins with your daily relationship with your horse - every tiny interaction is significant. So, we start from the ground up. You’ll find as you become confident in this way of being with horses that you can apply all of the lessons to riding when you and your horse are ready.

QUESTION: My question isn’t covered on this page. Can you help?

  • We’re here to help anytime! Just send us an email and one of our friendly team can give you some personal guidance.

QUESTION: What credit cards do you accept?

  • Pretty much all of them! Simply select the credit card option when making your payment. Our other option is PayPal, and you can link your credit cards to your PayPal account if you prefer. Don’t worry, there are no extra fees for this.

QUESTION: I keep my horse on agistment and can’t always access the arena - will I still be able to do this course?

  • Absolutely! You’ll find you’ll be able to complete the practical activities with your horse whatever you’re doing and wherever you are. You might feel like you wont be able to be more important than the grass in your horse's paddock, but don’t worry - we’ll cover that! And if you’re worried about feeling silly or being judged doing non traditional work in front of others - don’t worry - we’ve been there too! Chat to our wonderful community about it and you’ll soon feel normal again ;-)

QUESTION: I prefer to learn face to face at a clinic, are you sure I can learn online?

  • I hear you! But if I tried to get to even each country my students are in, I’d never get to see my own horses :-) Don’t worry though, if you’re not sure you can accurately relay what’s happening for you and your horse in the course forum, you will have the option to also sign up for the Ongoing Learning Program (OLP) with a 1 month free bonus when you purchase this course. OLP is designed to compliment all of our online courses. There’s tons of amazing features in this subscription program, but what you need to know now is that one of them is the chance to share videos of you and your horse for feedback from me, and the other is I’m LIVE doing members only training face to face every 2 weeks. Much more like meeting each other.

QUESTION: Can I cancel if I decide the course isn’t for me?

  • If you chose the payment plan option, you can cancel your payments anytime. There are no refunds for payments already made, and you will lose access to the course. If your payments are complete or you paid upfront to get the discount, then you already have lifetime access, so if life gets busy or you're travelling, you can come back and revisit it whenever you want. Please make sure to read the full terms and conditions when signing up.

QUESTION: I’m a senior, I’m not sure if I can do enough to make the changes I need to?

  • You are going to fit in just fine! We have students from all walks of life - some just got their first horse at age 60, some have been riding since they were 3, some have ditched traditional training for a better relationship with their horse. Everyone is welcome, everyone fits in, and everyone supports each other.

QUESTION: I’m trying to choose between this course and another, can you help me decide?

  • We sure might like to browse through both courses pages and compare the differences, or send us an email to sharing a little about you & your horse and we can give you some more information to make a decision on where to start.

QUESTION: Is this course suitable for beginners?

  • Yes! One of the best things about beginners if they have less bad habits to break. Our training is really unique and the perfect place to start your journey to Attunement, no matter your background or past experiences. The same goes for your horse. :-)

QUESTION: I’ve already tried lots of different natural horsemanship methods, how can I be sure this one will work?

  • You’ll hear me talk a lot about “what’s in it for the horse”? This is a unique concept. What it means is thinking about helping our horses find joy, pride, and empowerment in what we doing together. This is intrinsic motivation, which is very different from extrinsic motivation - like reinforcement of pressure & release or using treats. The reward is how training with you makes them feel. And it’s going to feel amazing, once you’ve mastered the steps to listening to them, and inspiring them.

QUESTION: Are there other people from my country in your course?

  • Last I checked, we had lots of corners of the globe covered! You’ll get to ‘meet’ our community online, where there are no barriers to sharing in each others journeys, as long as your basic English skills are ok :-)

QUESTION: Where are you located?

  • Ribbleton Attunement is based in Sydney Australia however our students are from all over the world! Anyone can study online with Ribbleton.